my wife and i have been depating this for over a year now.. we are stationed in korea and have a 1 1/2yr old female that is the most loving thing you can imagine..until she goes in heat..she has gotten to the point that she jumps on your back with claws and all... i have been told it is best to get both claws and spade at the same time.. but we are wanting kittens some time soon as soon as we get to the states in april of 2004.. what to do..???